When choosing a card to represent the Questioner, you can use these guidelines to assist you. Above all, use your own intuition to make the decision.
Gender
Male - King
Female - Queen
Youth of either gender - Jack
Hair and Eye Color
Fair to Red or Gold Hair and Blue or Grey Eyes - Diamond
Auburn or Grey Hair with Hazel or Green Eyes - Heart
Brown Hair and Light Brown Eyes - Club
Dark Hair and Eyes, Dark Complexion - Spade
Zodiac Sign
Fire Signs - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius - Club or Heart
Earth Signs - Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn - Diamond or Spade
Air Signs - Gemini, Libra, Aquarius - Spade or Diamond
Water Signs - Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces - Heart or Club
Personality Factors
Shy and helpful - Heart
Cool and Logical, inner self is important - Spade
Ambitious and businesslike, impatient, outgoing - Diamond
Instinctive or Intuitive, cheerful and friendly - Club